You may have seen Rob Gleeson on TV before, in Showtime’s House of Lies or other sitcoms and commercials. But as Gleeson explained in this stand-up performance on Monday’s Conan, he had been living in his own house of lies until this past year, when he came out of the closet as gay. And then went back into the bathroom of a gay bar. Which is like going inside another smaller gay bar.

It’s nothing like Milwaukee. Or being in Cancun with a 15-year-old girl who wants to have sex with you. He’ll explain it.

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